This is a version of the Buddhist loving kindness meditation: May I be happy, peaceful, and well. May I be free of danger and fear and suffering. May you be happy, peaceful, and well. May you be free of danger and fear and suffering. May we be happy, peaceful, and well. May we be free of danger and fear and suffering. Moments ago, I searched for loving kindness meditation on the internet and found a six-minute audio version in which Lama Tsomo guides the listener through loving ourselves, then our loved ones, then our neighbors and eventually the whole world. This was definitely worth six minutes of my time, and I invite you to find it on this website: https://www.namchak.org/ This prayer or meditation for loving kindness has two connections for me today. In addition to occasional Buddhist practice, I sometimes find truth and meaning in the literature of 12-step recovery programs. In the so-called “big book” of Alcoholics Anonymous, it says, If you have a resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or thing that you resent, you will be free. If you will ask in prayer for everything you want for yourself to be given to them, you will be free. While couched in the terms of resentment, there is a deep truth here that resonates with the Buddhist prayer for loving kindness. I pray for myself to be well–and I pray the very same thing for everyone else. This is easy for my loved ones, and harder for people that I’m in conflict with or for whom I hold resentment. This brings me to the last connection. In last Sunday’s worship service I gave a message about the great political divide in this country, and about the difficulty that humans often have in communicating with each other. Part of my message focussed on conversations that we have with one another: how can we talk and listen better? As I reflect more about it, I realize that is only one part of the problem. How we talk and listen to one another is with our brains and our words. How we feel about each other, especially those we are in conflict with, is with our hearts and spirits. May we take time to meditate and pray for ourselves, then for our loved ones, then for strangers, and finally for the people that we are in conflict with. I don’t have to agree with someone to wish them to be well. When I stop harboring hatred and resentment, then I am healthier and I can engage with people – even those who seem to be enemies – in more healthy and productive ways. May I be happy, peaceful, and well. May I be free of danger and fear and suffering. May you be happy, peaceful, and well. May you be free of danger and fear and suffering. May we be happy, peaceful, and well. May we be free of danger and fear and suffering. May it be so. Rev. Andrew Frantz |
I have a cherished family photo taken on the day of my oldest child’s graduation. Along with me and his mother are his brother and all six of his grandparents, posed in front of the Japanese Maple tree at the house in Ohio.
In the seven and a half years since that photo was taken, the grandparents are older and one has died; teenagers have become grown ups; their mom and I divorced and I no longer live in that house. Even the tree in the background of that photo is no longer there: it died from disease and I eventually cut it down. Yesterday I planted a tree in my yard, at my new house in Michigan: a Japanese Maple. I did the planting with fertilizer and also with ritual, adding sage and echinacea to the soil; saying prayers to the four directions before and after planting; creating a circle of stones around the tree. Planting a tree is a sacred act, a way of faithfully connecting with the future.The tree is leafy, red and gorgeous, and stands a little taller than I do. When I cut down the dead tree in Ohio I decided to keep the trunk, cutting off the limbs and sripping the bark to create a staff. The staff is curvy, strong and smooth, and stands a little taller than I do. When I make a sacred promise to myself, or perform other rituals, I use this staff, connecting me to Mother Earth. The living tree in my yard contains the magic of growing: of taking in sunlight and water and air and turning them into beauty and life. The wooden staff in my living room contains magic as well: years of life and growth made solid, a strength and rootedness I can hold in my hand. Maybe it is just me, but I guess this is true for many of us: living things (loved ones, pets, plants in the garden) connect us with the present and point toward the future; special objects that we possess (photographs, jewelry, a piece of pottery) connect us with the past through memory and love. PRAYER: May trees grow and flourish in abundance. May beauty surround us, may it be the constant background of our lives. May we rejoice in the cycles of life: birth, growth and death–and may we be rooted in the present even as we connect to the past and the future. May it be so. Rev. Andrew Frantz
Yesterday the voters in Kansas voted to affirm the legal right to abortion—by a surprising 60-40 margin in a traditionally conservative state. Abortion rights are strongly supported by Unitarian Universalists. This summer, 99% of General Assembly voters approved the reproductive rights statement that includes this language:
Our Unitarian Universalist faith affirms that all of our bodies are sacred, and that we are each endowed with the twin gifts of agency and conscience. Each of us should have the power to decide what does and doesn’t happen to our bodies at every moment of our lives because consent and self determination are holy. In the words of SisterSong, the Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective, we unequivocally support every person’s right · To maintain personal bodily autonomy · To have children · To not have children · To parent children in safe and sustainable communities …and goes on to frame reproductive justice in terms of freedom from oppression: Controlling people’s bodies during pregnancy is about enforcing white supremacy, patriarchy, and ruling-class power. Historically, those most affected by reproductive oppression have not been centered. Again, as advocated by SisterSong, we must: · Analyze power systems · Address intersecting oppressions · Center the most marginalized · Join together across issues and identities It is expected that Michigan voters will be asked to consider abortion rights in November, just as voters in Kansas did yesterday. I believe that UU’s can and should act on their religious and moral convictions to advocate for issues in electoral politics. The national effort called “UU the Vote” puts the organizing power of our religious institution into such efforts. I felt joy and relief upon hearing the results from Kansas. The overturning of Roe v. Wade was disheartening, and it is wonderful to get some good news for a change. I also reflect that these issues are not absolute and black-and-white. When I get pulled into an “us versus them” mindset, when I start thinking that those who disagree with me on issues like abortion are evil people, I need to remind myself to take a broader perspective. All people deserve love. All people want to feel safe. I want to keep struggling against unjust laws, and I want to do so with love and joy in my heart. PRAYER: Spirit of Infinite Life and Love, Bringer of Blessings: Bestow your blessings of Joy, Love, Comfort and Belonging on those 6 out of 10 Kansas voters who affirmed the right to abortion yesterday Bestow, Gracious Spirit, an equal share of these blessings to the 4 out of 10 voters who disagreed. May all be blessed by Love. May all know that they are worthy and enough. Amen. Rev. Drew Frantz |
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