If you realise that all things change,
there is nothing you will try to hold on to.
If you aren’t afraid of dying,
there is nothing you can’t achieve.
Trying to control the future
is like trying to take the master carpenter’s place.
When you handle the master carpenter’s tools,
chances are that you’ll cut your hand
-Tao Te Ching, verse 74
One of the themes I find again and again in this sacred text is non-action: letting things alone. Elsewhere in the Tao Te Ching (verse 10) it says, “Can you deal with the most vital matters / by letting events take their course?” The core wisdom of Taoism is going with the flow. My Western mind has trouble embracing this philosophy, because ingrained in me is the idea of action as identity: I am what I do. I create the reality I want by the choices I make, shaping the future. And I have trouble embracing this philosophy because of my social change mind-set: ingrained in me is the idea that I can make positive changes in a world full of injustice and oppression.
I guess I want to have it both ways: to engage in efforts that try to shape a brighter future (personally and globally), and to have a sense of equanimity that everything is flowing as it will. Indeed, verse 9 says, “Do your work, then step back. / The only path to serenity.”
There are two other ideas that I find in the first part of verse 74 as quoted above: accepting change and accepting mortality. Everything is indeed changing from one moment to the next: the water in the river; the breath in my body; the politics of my country. Holding on to anything and trying to stop it from changing is folly. Nothing is permanent—and the ultimate example of this is that we are not permanent. We shall die. The wisdom of this scripture—that I’m trying to embrace to the benefit of my Western mind—is that our mortality is actually liberating. If I am afraid of my own death, I work hard to cling to how things are now, and this means being stuck in ultimately fruitless efforts. When I know that everything is in a state of flow, especially my own life flowing (slowly, I hope) toward death—then I can go with the flow. I can be here now. I can be engaged in the things that I deem important such as personal happiness and social justice. But I do so with a spiritual detachment. Ironically, Lao Tzu says that this detachment allows us to achieve anything: “If you aren’t afraid of dying, / there is nothing you can’t achieve.”
Detachment and going with the flow don’t come naturally to me. Nor does embracing my own mortality. I am grateful for the words of the Tao Te Ching that challenge me into a new way of thinking about life.
PRAYER:
May we all find the wisdom, truth and meaning that speaks to us authentically.
May we be open to those truths that challenge us, showing new avenues of thought and understanding that we have yet to explore.
Blessed be.
Rev. Drew Frantz
September 23, 2025
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